隨筆

Choice is Yours

前天在 FB 看到一個標題 <<養小朋友老十年>>, 讓我想起 Netflix – Explained “Why Women Are Paid Less”, 母親的犧牲比當爸的來得多很多.

生育後, 能否把握好機會坐月, 調理身子, 又是另一個事倩. 對於老去及男女平等, 我的看法是自然的老去是一道不錯的風景; 至於男, 女根本不會平等, 因為與生俱來就是不同, 既然不同, 何來平等? 儘量平等就好咯.

生育與否, 還是回到兩個人相處的基本步 – 溝通. 兩個人有共識就 ok, 有人喜歡安謐, 有人喜歡熱鬧. 又或者, 兩位皆有夢要追, 對自己負責任, 及令自己快樂, 是其中的必修課題.

I saw a FB headline stated that to bring up one child will age you faster.

In some how, being a mom seems scarifies a lot (when compare with being a father). Which recalls I watched Netflix – Explained “Why Women Are Paid Less” few months ago.

Aging gracefully sounds romantic, right? If the nature is totally different, I’d say relatively equal is perfectly fine. When you fall in love with someone, communication is the fundamental key.

Life is too short. Whatever we choose, stick to it.

 

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